Starting off with a little confession – I’m pretty frustrated with myself right now. And hey, it’s totally okay to be miffed with yourself sometimes, right? Before I dive into the heart of this post, I’ve got a question for you. Ever had that burning desire to do something, only to have your own brain put up roadblocks? That’s exactly where I’m at, folks.
Here I am, typing away in a Busan café, with the Gwangandaegyo in sight and the last of the year’s sun on my face, fresh from my ritual morning beach walk. But let’s get back to what’s been bugging me. For some reason, I just can’t seem to find the guts to dine alone at a restaurant or drop by a cozy brunch spot by myself. It’s frustrating, really, because I’ve always been the type who doesn’t give a second thought to what others think, and I’ve never had trouble hanging out solo in a café, no matter how tiny. Lately, though, my brain’s been playing tricks on me. I’ve got all these cool spots saved, ready to explore, but when I’m actually out and about, my feet just keep on walking, as if they’ve got a mind of their own, steering me clear of where I actually want to go.
Honestly, it’s super annoying. I’m here, eager to dive into the local food scene, to savor authentic dishes and sip on some top-notch coffee. Yet, I keep defaulting to the big-name café chains. They’re fine and all, but let’s be real – their brews and bites just don’t stack up to the charm and quality of the smaller, more intimate spots.
I think it’s time I give myself a little nudge. I mean, what’s the worst that could go down? A place turns me away for flying solo? If that’s the case, they don’t deserve my cash anyway. On the flip side, I could end up discovering some amazing eats, stumble upon hidden gems, and head home with a full belly and a smile. So what’s with this mental block? Is there something specific I’m scared of? I wish I had the answer.
This post might be brief, but hey, we all need a quick vent session now and then, right? As I’ve said before, life isn’t always sunshine and rainbows. We’ve all got our battles. Sometimes, the best way to keep those challenges from getting the best of us is to step up and face them head-on. That’s exactly what I’m setting out to do here in Busan.
matcha latte on a rainy night 